Do you feel people like you generally?
- yes I am well liked
- people tolerate me
- no, nobody likes me
- I don’t care what people think of me
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How about “I don’t know if people like me or not.”
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I have very low self-esteem.
My logical/rational side tells me people in real life tends to like me because of my positive and caring demeanor, but my self-hating side tells me people dislike me for being a people-pleasing doormat.
I do recognise I have some lovable qualities, and more people seem to like me than dislike me now, but I still sometimes have my doubts.
I don’t know how people on SZ.com feel about me. I don’t think I’m one of the popular ones. I tend to sometimes have outburts or rub people the wrong way, but I also feel like most people tolerate me and care about me, so I guess that’s good.
I do feel respected, though.
Not so much in real life, but on here I do.
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I’m not sure which one of these questions the poll is about.
any of these, I edited it to make it more straight forward.
Even though I am still overweight my self esteem still tells me I’m sexy and funny…haha…I am well liked also.
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Tho my self esteem is low … i am super popular on sz.com…hahahaahahahah
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I tend to not give a fuck) anymore. Every once in a while I’ll get lonely and wish I had more friends and contemplate being nicer and more amiable, but it never lasts. I’m too stubborn and bitter.
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My self-esteem is high but I think people don’t like me… Aren’t they two different things? 
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I think they’re definitely different.
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I am well-liked by my girlfriend and her family, but not always, Same with my family, on a fairly regular basis they get a little pissed, but after a while they go back to being fairly nice. But i know that about the only one who loves me almost unconditionally is my girlfriend. She’s really the only one who’s actually helped me when i wasn’t doing well and she’s been very patient with me over the years. My few friends like me well enough, but they aren’t the types that will go out of their way to help if I get sick again or need any help.
As far as self-esteem, I’m okay i guess, although it’s only cause I’m doing a little better nowadays. As self-righteous and selfish as I can be, a lot of the time i still think I’m just an ■■■■■■■ and a piece of ■■■■ underneath my cheap facade.
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I have amazing self esteem but I don’t think many people like me. But I don’t think it matters, what other people think of me isn’t really self esteem. It’s how I see myself. And I’m the best ( lol jk but I am awesome 
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I chose that I’m well liked, but I’m certainly not well liked by everyone that I interact with in life. And that’s okay.
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I am at least tolerated. I am unsure about liked, as I don’t know what people are saying about me when I’m not right there
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i have no self esteem and because of that people only tolerate me
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i know the mods on here dont like me much and half the members, i can tell by what most people say and also the likes system makes it pretty clear, also i get flagged for defending myself when others insult me and then my post gets hidden and their stupid posts dont, well thankyou very much mods, you are so nice 
my ass, i think certain people on here have a personal vendetta against me and its clear i am getting harassed by certain people. its not very nice.
Have you thought about evaluating what you’re saying that gets these responses from people? Is there a pattern? What’s the chances that it’s everyone against you and you’re totally innocent?
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Sorry isn’t this totally off topic? What’s that have to do with self esteem.
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its how certain people make me feel, its not very supportive
Does zero count?