Do you think your lack of emotions is due to the abuse or the ASD? Six years is a long time of abuse.
In my mom’s case she was emotionally cold because of the abuse. She died so it doesn’t matter anymore what I say about her. She was self-destructive and had low self-esteem. So also had a drinking problem. Then I turn out to be an alcoholic. I used to hate it when I was a kid and she was drunk.
A gf I once had hooked up with a mutual friend less than a week after we broke up. She wasn’t mine anymore, but I still felt cheated on for some reason. I was pretty pissed at both of them for a while.
i cheated on my college girlfriend one summer, i was miserable in the relationship after a year, and started to flirt with other women, and one thing led to another, i actually told her about it, thinking she would want to break up, but she wasn’t that upset and wanted to stay with me. so i had another miserable couple of years with her. that relationship totally messed me up, being with someone i was not that into or little chemistry with. i didnt date for a long time after that, and think of all the women i could have been in a relationship with instead. i only cheated once…
life is ruff get a helmet , Hi Dr Zen here , its so cold on ether side of that story, i know, best know who your playing with before jumping in bed they say, but its not that easy. the grass is greener on the other side, and so are the weeds. will you feel . and it hurts that is love eye openers.
This is what AA is for, and I had to forgive her and forget it. Plus make amends to her for the damage I did to her.
personally, i think most young people should date around a little bit before marriage, so they end up with someone there compatible with, instead of staying true to someone your miserable with because of “the rules”. really i don’t think it’s cheating unless your serious and married or life partners or something.
A girl I was dating fooled around with my friend/enemy. He knew her before I knew her and they were friends. I actually got her phone number from him so maybe he was getting back at me or something. I felt betrayed by her but I still went out with her several more times.
Ive cheated but never got cheated on girls say Im really good in bed maybe thats why
Well I’ve never cheated but technically I got romantically involved with a married man… He was in a poly-relationship and his wife said it was ok, but then she got jealous… And suddenly I was accused of being a whore and he was labeled a cheater.
Sorry to hear that Noise. I’ve been burned too. I’ve decided to call myself Asexual. I’m 61 and don’t want anymore of it.
Yes. It was dumb and I left and came back. Things didn’t improve so I left. Should have done it sooner but I still talk to my ex Mrs. She was probably lo bipolar in hindsight and just does dumb things. I don’t really even blame her for it…she learned from idiots in her past and I can’t help that and she’s still not a bad person.
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