Poll: Do you ACTUALLY want a girlfriend/boyfriend?

DX'd - Sz/SzA
21

I do have a boyfriend but I now live independently. Not meaning I sleep around but rather I don’t spend time with anyone in particular. Besides myself and my cat ofcourse.

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22

I’m almost at 30. I used to be desperate to have a life partner, which only brought me to push myself into relationships with people I didn’t have strong feelings for, or who didn’t suit me.

Being with someone out of desperation isn’t healthy.

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23

Welcome to my nightmare.
I think you’re gonna like it.
I think you’re gonna feel you belong…

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24

I am married and happy with it. My husband is very supportive.

5 Likes
25

I want a girlfriend, but only if she is truly right for me. I spent way too much time with the wrong woman. I broke things off with her a year and a half ago, and I am so glad I did. She was terrible for my self esteem and confidence levels, terribly critical of everything I did. If it has to be like that, then no, I would rather be alone.

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26

I just want a cat. Too many bad experiences with men.

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27

Kats are the best :fox_face::fox_face::fox_face::heart_eyes_cat::heart_eyes_cat::heart_eyes_cat:

28

You know i feel like having a girlfriend too recently :smile_cat:

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29

I only have interest on things I can actually have

30

I’d like a boyfriend and a husband someday but I’m so disturbed mentally/emotionally I think it would be a real challenge to find a serious relationship. I’d need a guy with a lot of patience and compassion.

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31

With resentment, MI, constant negativity, and sick days… i am not sure how i am managing a relationship. You can never have everything and life is so short and so fragile. Just do whatever you think makes you happy

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32

I’ve always been happy without one so I don’t want a bf. I don’t even need friends nor pets. I’m in the best condition when I’m on my own.

Wanting a bf/gf doesn’t always mean you need one, just like you want chocolate when you see a chocolate ad.

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33

I want a boyfriend or girlfriend. I really want the support and love.

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34

I’m happier single, so, no.

2 Likes
35

Yes, I want a girlfriend.

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36

I want a girlfriend but the antipsychotic side effects and my psychological problems say no.

4 Likes
37

Not really. I enjoy my own company well enough but I would settle for a genuine friend whether humanoid or feline or canine. Too many negative experiences hold me back when it comes to this question.

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38

I have a friend for sex when I call him, I don’t want more binding relationships

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39

Sex is good ola…???

40

When I feel like it, but the problem is that one partner is boring, and finding someone worthy and good in a bed is very difficult … I also want to be with a woman, that sounds fun

1 Like