Sometimesnpeople get irritable or angry and it’s obvious and they either lie intentionally won’t admit it or for whatever reason it is annoying.
If they are annoyed just say so.
If irritated just say so.
Be honest.
Pet peeve.
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Some people are incongruent. Say one thing but truly believe something else.
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Pure honesty is awesome but it’s rare. Most people are full of it.
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My dad is always irritated And angryish when he is telling me to do things for him. It is very challenging. But he is doing his part as a father to me so I just take it as I’m not doing my part as well as I should as a son. I take it I will deal with this issue with any relationship I’m in with any responsible person. I am learning to mature and grow with it and be a more responsible person myself…
I’m a bit fake. I’m honest but I don’t necessarily say everything. I don’t care. It suits me.
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I lie to my mother because she is nosey
I don’t like it.
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What bothers me is backstabbers.
Maybe I still do that on occasion too, I’m guilty,
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You backstab people?
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Yea on the occasion. Not in a very detrimental content level. I try to be fair
But idk. Maybe on the occasion I back stab ppl
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Is that because you never really cared about them in the first place? Or is it because you’re fickle and you change your mind about them? Or is it that you lack continuity in your identity?
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Because I’m afraid to tell them.
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So you change your mind about them but can’t be upfront about it
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I got to admit, I feel the same way as you @Zoe
about myself…
I have like, a love hate relationship with almost everyone in my real life it seems…
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I don’t change my mind about them. No one is perfect. But they might have done something that I didn’t want to elaborate on too much. But to a closer friend, I cud say it more openly.
However you are right it’s not good.
I’ll be brave and tell that person more openly.
Even if he hates me then.
And doesn’t tell me so
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Well, I still don’t even understand what you mean by backstabbing? You mean talking s hit behind someone’s back?
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Ugh it’s long to explain. Sorry.
But it’s not like I hate that person.
They may just have done something that makes me uncomfortable. Which I am not extremely open about to them.
But I still enjoy their company, very much so.
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Some people don’t really know how to manage their emotions or don’t like confrontation.
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I understand backstabbing to be like when you betray someone when you really do something that’s fuc ked up that would hurt them so much if they specifically because you guys are close
Backstabbing is the act of betraying or deceiving someone, especially a friend, in a sneaky or underhanded way. It can involve verbally attacking someone who isn’t present, or attempting to discredit someone through innuendo or accusation. Backstabbing is often seen as cowardly and untrustworthy, and can cause significant harm to relationships and trust
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Yea it’s true. I’m gonna be more open to him. Thanks @FreeLunch
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