Overthinking appearance. Again

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Um. I know my character is… Quite masculine.
Now I overthink that I also look masculine.
I don’t get why I overthink such unimportant things.
I get attention.
Male attention I mean. It shouldn’t matter why. I mean, whatever is the reason behind the attention.
But sometimes I truly have so small, uninteresting thoughts in my head. :confused:
Overall. My family had influence here.
They hate when women look or act masculine.
Overall… In many countries older, closed minded ppl think that a lady cannot be anything else than a pretty butterfly. ( I mean feminine, pretty, good, kind and overall… Doing everything to males favour)

This thread is literally meaningless. I know.

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LOL

well that was funny.

Yea I need a man who likes me for me.

Not for what he hopes I’ll be.

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Umm… It’s super relatable to me. :confused: in a sad way
While arguing with my ex I realise some hurtful things, too. @Zoe

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He’s an idiot. Don’t take him seriously. You are amazing just the way you are

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My mom and sister are very strong women.

I used to work with ambitious women and have worked for strong women leaders.

I like strong women. I don’t like toxic and manipulative people.

What is important is that someone has a good heart and has the best intentions for you. Whether they are male or female.

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I like what you write. You have some simple, but deep and honestly brilliant thoughts.

Overall, it doesn’t matter what the person is. What is most important is his actions and behaviour.

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Everyone is different, masculine, feminine or in between. That’s the way nature made us, so I guess there is a meaning with it.

It’s too bad that some cultures hold on to the belief that women and men are supposed to be a certain way. But things have changed a lot over the years in western countries at least. People pretty much are themselves and what they want to be.

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I have problems seeing females like that…not that they should serve men or anything but like they should always be pretty butterflies :joy:

It’s hard to fight and I don’t know why I feel like this. :grimacing: Starting to feel like I’m actually missing the REAL person that’s in front of me

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