Obsessing about my sisters problems

Theres 4 of us siblings were married except my sister whos divorced, my brothers are younger and work full time

I used to help my sister a lot cleaning and helping her with the kids years ago,

Me and my sister both have mh issues, she has general anxiety disorder and cleaning issues. All 3 of her kids are different degrees of autism

You need an appointment to go visit, she wont let you in the door otherwise

She wants to move and live on her own, the kids are around 18-24 and still live with her mostly stay at their dads sometimes

Anyway she moans every time i ring her about her health or the kids, its like she isn’t interested in me at all and just wants a moan. She never rings me?

Ive invited her over next week but im stressed about her, obsessing.

Shes older than me and mum and dad don’t help her, they only offer to take her to church ugh sucks

I feel bad for her but i am struggling too much to help her clean or anything. The best i can do is have her here for an afternoon

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What a mess, sorry to share

I think families are a bad idea, I wish they’d never been invented!

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:laughing: ugh nightmare

I care i really do but i feel lifes a struggle enough i really can’t handle anymore stress

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:laughing: ugh nightmare

I care i really do but

Time for some boundaries and a good heart to heart

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My sister has a lot on her plate

Theres no need for boundaries because neither of us can cope end of

We both have mental illness

She has 3 kids with mental illness

She has a lot more to deal with than most people

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