I hate how my sister has friends and i dont

shes a 29 year old karen and im 27, not a karen. i get that this illness makes me socially isolated, and alogia doesn’t help. but i want friends, and every time i try i fail…and im a better person then my sister but nooooo, for some reason she has friends and i don’t

sorry i just dont know what to do

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IDK, to have a friend , you have to be a friend.

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Haha sounds like such sibling speech. ‘Im a better person than my sister’ :laughing:
I grew up an only child with a single parent until i met my real dad when i was around 25 years old. Met my half brothers too. And a whole other side of my family.
Anyway enough about my random story.
Im sure you’ll find some friends soon enough :slightly_smiling_face:

thanks and no your story sounds interesting

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I made friends with neighbours and people i met in hospital. But because im so poor financially i dont get to meet the friends i made in hospital, ocasionally text them

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thats cool 15 1 15 15 15

I don’t do too well with friendship. I don’t know why exactly.

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Is it possible that you’re giving off a really bitter vibe that chases people away?

Are there any mental health charities or support services nearby where you can meet similar people?

Yeah it’s strange some of the most beautiful people havd no friends and some of the most disgusting horrible people are popular with heaps of friends n invites n socialites.

It seems to be if they have money , status , career.

I can’t stand being around my sister.
She had such an easy privileged life yet she looks down at me who has survived more hardships than she could.
She suppresses me and thinks she is superior.she’s stuck up and disrespectful and teaches her children to disrespect me too.

Now her nazi kid wants to meet my fur baby and I can’t say no.
I want to say no but because I live in family home I have to .

She was never bullied, never raped , never had voices, never been poor ….
She has no idea.

Most of my family have no idea.
They should treat me with respect and love but they don’t love and value me.

My sister is socialite always invited to parties and weddings and weekends at vineyard and holidays anc fancy stuff.

I’m always by myself with my dog.
I have no friends.

I have life experience and i don’t see how I don’t havd friends and she does but all her friends are the same.
Priveleged easy lives……
They all have no idea yet they think they are superior REAL people with experience.
It’s disgusting!
I avoid her .

I should be respected , loved , valued….
Instead they see me as a loser , disrespect me and supress me and i can’t stand to be around people who treat me so bad.

Where are my people?

maybe haha 15151515

I have a few friends from my clubhouse, but 5 years ago I had zero friends. Having friends requires a LOT of work to maintain, a lot of give and take. My sister has tons of friends and seems to make and keep them easily… I’m a bit jealous of her but I understand that we’ve had, and have, different experiences in life. I’m just happy to have a few…

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