I .mAy just be paranoid but I think my partner’s family doesn’t see me as family. When my partner graduated and got her diploma they didn’t sit close to me and didn’t introduce me to anyone.
Then today when my partner bought lunch my mother in law introduced everyone at the table but me then when she was taking pictures of everyone she didn’t take one of me
I’m wondering why your partner doesn’t speak up at those times. She’s should be introducing you and having her picture taken with you.
I think it’s pretty well established that your in-laws are toxic and that you and your partner need to get out of that deeply disfunctional situation. Until you can get out of there, I recommend that you ask your partner to speak up on your behalf, and that you start speaking up for yourself. O