Honestly, I had not much friends growing up. And right now I have people I talk to etc, but if I am honest I don’t like people dragging me everywhere. If I am not feeling upto going for walks or cinema, then please, leave me alone. I have learned to enjoy my own company. I don’t mind to go on holidays with people but I feel my space feels invaded. As I need my own room or I feel uncomfortable sharing. I guess I have gotten to used to wanting my own space now. Or because I live at home I just want to get away from people. People are crazy… ahaha…
I am looking forward to China… I will meet new people who don’t know I am crazy but I get to spend time with myself… without anyone around me pushing me to do anything…
I have been to a concert on my own and go cinema many times on my own… I prefer it to be honest… most times… although i do like the occasaional company too.
@everhopeful as i think i may have been manic with my decision as I would have never decided it before… but I am still going i want to and i have always wanted to but i won’t lie i do feel axious but very excited…
i guess we get used to being on our own but if you do feel its not good then its obviously not making you happy, im sure you can work towards being more happier by working on that… i guess i am different in that i have no friends well mostly none but i have a crazy family around who drive me nuts … that drives me to like my own company… they are a blessing.
im not trying to be mean… but like the “friend” (my neighbour), she asks me for walks around the block and I say no i feel tired she says “you need it… its good for you”, most the times i have had a long day and i say i can’t because i cant … i hate being pestered… stop pestering me … go away… stop texting lols. i appreciate she is trying to help but its not helping.
I agree!
People need to listen to the word No, and maybe ask one more time to clarify, then they need to stop insisting.and start listening.
Where do they get the idea they know better than you?
If you are happy with your own company then it’s all good. Sharing accommodation with my friends on holiday was too hectic! Being dragged around from place to place when I really wanted to take it slow was a nightmare. Never again. Be yourself, ish. It’s the only way to be!
When you meet likeminded individuals, having friends is so much fun. It is very rare though…
You will never have a friend, you absolutely like 100% in my experience anyway.
My friends get on my nerves sometimes, but I persevere through, let things go unnoticed etc. This is life.
I just spoke to my cousin here at the shisha place. She’s like that’s not you. Thinking it might be a decision in my episode as she says be careful cos cannot be ill there . Dr is trying to get me well to go. But if I can’t I have insurance to get some of the money back.
i want to and i have always wanted to but i won’t lie i do feel axious but very excited…