Nervous insecurity

my parents had it and so do I. How do you soothe yourself when you feel it?

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Realise you’re equal to everyone else?

I must have something negative on my mind - like I’m a cold, demanding and aggressive person - which I tend to be. Combine that with thinking I’m perfect and you have a real mess on your hands.

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Do you really think you’re perfect or are you being facetious?

It came to mind a couple of days ago. That I really hadn’t accepted myself as someone who makes mistakes. My parents were perfectionists and I picked it up. Making mistakes made me tense and insecure so I defended myself by thinking I was perfect.

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Well, at least you’re aware of it. That’s the first step.

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