Because if I’m cold to people, I notice my own tense coldness. It has a physical manifestation. It’s painful. One boss even told me not to be so cold. “You won’t melt.” he said sarcastically. It’s more habitual than anything else. I don’t know any reason not to warm up.
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I’m really cold too. When it comes to intimacy sometimes. It does upset me a lot because I don’t want to be. But I don’t know how to ease up.
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I’m aware that I have become cold like my parents were. We do tend to copy our parents, right or wrong.
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I think you’re right. I’m a lot like my mum and dad even more so than my other siblings. Some good and some bad. It takes crazy effort to unwind the bad lol
I don’t think you’re totally cold 
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Neither are you. We are just aware.
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