So, I met this girl who’s friend from some friends. She’s super shy but also super hot (and she knows it).
I was trying to look her in the eye and ■■■■, start small talk and whatnot. She’s super shy.
Anyways I was going to give up, but my friends told me that she was checking me out when I was not looking.
So, I asked her out via message. She said ok cool but maybe I’m busy today so I’ll let you know. At the end she couldn’t make it.
After that, I wrote her that she can text me if she wants to chill a bit. I don’t know if that was the right move, but I think I shouldn’t insist any more (although beeing her that shy, idk if she will text me).
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I think it’s good to put the ball in her court now. Let her be the one to approach you
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Thanks. I think this one is a lost cause
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Tulane
March 23, 2025, 7:03pm
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I agree with @anon92321969
It seems you have kinda made your move, so it’s up to her now
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Thanks bro, appreciated. What were you thinking when applied to this situation? But I’m aware of the concept. I think I do it subconsciously.
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Yea man… just see of she hits you up.
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Is she fine bro? Not to be rude tho lol
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Text her and tell her she looks much better up close than through binoculars.
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What if she thinks hes stalking her with binoculars
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I was joking…and that was the joke. That it was a really creepy thing to say and you are guaranteed to get rejected.
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Hahah ..thats hilarious
I didnt read the previous comments so i figured i didnt know the context but i felt like making a joke
For some reason it never works out for me when i try to be funny
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What’s it mean that she’s hot and knows it? Girls don’t flaunt their beauty especially if shy.
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Bro she fine trust me lol. It’s like a weird combination of shyness and “I know I’m hot” type of girl. Never seen those two together to this extent
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Bro… get those binoculars!!!
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She is hot and gets an extreme amount of male attention. It’s the way she acts and dresses, the way she presents herself to the world.
But she’s also very shy. It seems that you didn’t get it, and I also don’t get how this two together are able to coexist.
Some girls are very aware of their attractive and some girls aren’t that aware, same for men.
I don’t think this whole thing is mysoginistic. Just facts.
Maybe she is like the ugly/ pretty girl in all of the horror movies.
She is ugly with her hair up and glasses…lets down her hair and takes her glasses off and she’s actually a knockout.
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Man I actually like glasses and hair up
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Aah…the Librarian fetish.
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I mean, it’s ok to flaunt your beauty…
