First she ghosted me for a month and half then gaslighted me about it. She missed like 7 phone appointments in a row. I missed the first one. I phoned her about 6 or 7 times during that period asking her what was up and emailed her 3 or 4 times and talked to her manager about it.
My therapists explanation: “Oh, after you missed that appointment I didn’t think you were interested in seeing me anymore”. A very lame excuse and she lied because most of my phone calls and emails said I wanted to see her.
Last week I was supposed to meet her in person at 2:00 down at the clinic. I couldn’t make it so I called her and left a voicemail asking if we could switch the appointment to a phone appointment. She called at 2:15 and when I asked her if she got my message she said no, she got one call from me and I didn’t leave any message. Which was true, after I left a voicemail I tried calling her again ten minutes later and when I didn’t reach her in person I hung up. But if she got that message, she had to have gotten my earlier message.
She’s missed so many of our appointments and always had excuses and I now wonder if she was lying about missing some of those appointments too.
