Just because i have trial shifts at a coffee bar, my sister said she’s gonna send some cash to buy ‘Slim fit shirts’ and smart clothes and not loose jumpers or tracksuit tops. She always dresses office smart and she does not realize that for a job that pays 300 EUR a month and me weighing 100kgs (216lbs) those smart clothes gonna make me feel and look stupid as my man tits gonna be peeking and my belly showing. I am gonna refuse that money or just send her back I dont need charity and in the end those are trial shifts only and not even an office job. I live in really small town 15 000 pops where people live in poor conditions.
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It’s the thought that counts
If she’s already paid tell her thank you, if not tell her that right now your body shape doesn’t look good in those clothes and you need time to sort yourself out.
Your sister buying you clothes and wanting to help you is a kindness you need to recognize not pity.
Yes, it’s the thought that counts. But you should look as good as you can at work, especially if you work with the public. Just buy a nice pair of Dockers and a nice t-shirt or button-down shirt. I think she would understand why you do not want tight fitting clothes. But it’s possible to dress well at any weight and it boosts my confidence if I’m clean, my hair is cut, and I’m wearing nice clothes.
My sisters have bought me many clothes and gone shopping with me most of my life. They have no ulterior motive, they know they are just in a better position than me and want to help me. If your sister didn’t care about you she would not do things for you; including buying you clothes.
You don’t understand guys, she is total sociopath and only cares about herself and her image. By sending money she can easily keep patronising about it and have good family image. She NEVER texts or calls me. She made me cry multiple times for like 10EUR that she gives me when I am desperate and gives me moral about it. She earns 4,000 EUR a month it is like not even one hour of work and she gets to torture me for a whole day.
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If you feel so strongly about it, politely say “Thanks, but no thanks,” and be done with it. Then, you don’t have to worry about wearing clothes that make you unhappy, and she can’t hold anything over your head now or down the road.
Dirty money stinks, don’t take it.
Personally i couldn’t care less. Take it. Get pizza instead of clothes.
I wanna get this tattooed somewhere on my body.
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