He looks cute with or without his beard but he’s tying his beard up and I don’t remember what he looks like anymore. He can keep it but would be nice to see his face again. Am I being controlling by telling him this. ? Or course he wont listen but still. I just went to see his face again.
I don’t think it’s controlling. But it might hurt his feelings if he thinks it means you don’t like his beard. Maybe ask for a pic from before his beard
Tell him cut the beard or no “lower area”. Works every time.
No ‘lower area’?
You mean if he doesn’t shave he won’t be allowed to do the limbo?
@Jeffmcguire Not everyone is driven by sex.
Is that what that comment meant. It’s not like we have sex anyway lol
I dont hate it. As I like he gets to express himself , just that it would be nice to see him.
I totally get that. I just meant he might be sensitive about it even though you don’t mean anything bad by it
Straight to the ‘upper area’ eh
Don’t tell him how to keep his body. If he likes his beard, that is what counts.
Proper grooming for your significant other matters.
Bodily autonomy is more important that what someone else wants. He is obviously happy with it.
It isn’t as if they live together and she has to stare at it all day.
I agree. His body. Never tells me what to do. Guess the same applies here.
What if Ish didn’t shave her underarms and her boyfriend didn’t like it?
Haha you remember that thread ?
Then she shouldn’t shave if she doesn’t want to. His problem if he doesn’t like it.
You aren’t being realistic about how relationships work.
Huh. How so? I’ve been with my husband 22 years. We don’t tell each other how to style ourselves.
Now my abusive ex that tried toctell me how to dress, cut my hair, dye my hair, how to do my makeup…theres a reason he is an ex.
This case with Ish isn’t about control, it’s about respect.
I agree. She should respect his preference.