My partners cousin just had a baby a month ago and is pregnant again. The uncle said if they didn’t make a turn around and start caring better for their kid he will give the kid to my partner and her mom. First of all I know it wont work that way. But my in laws are really pressuring my partner to take the baby. But they said I cant have anything to do with him and I wont be allowed to spend time with him or even get to be alone with him
That is so ■■■■■■ up. Any update on when you guys can get out of there?
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Things have definitely spiraled out of control around there,
You need to get yourself away from those people.
What happened to you moving out?
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@LED and @GoldenRex we had some money saved up over 200 but my partner had to go to the emergency room and her insurance didn’t cover the whole visit . So were kind screwed until my partner can work more hours and afford the bills and to put money into savings. Her dad is supposedly getting a raise but I dont see how a ■■■■■■■ can get a promotion
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I’m not talking about you and your partner,
I’m talking about YOU.
With your disability income can you afford to move?
Have you looked into low income housing in your area?
You kind of have to save yourself from this situation, @cbbrown
You have to take a stand, stop paying them rent and get your own place.
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I actually don’t know if I could save up enough. I have 25 now my partner doesnt know about im hiding in case it does come for a time that I have to cut ties. The only animal I could take with me is jasper
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How would that work? Your partner takes the baby and you cant have anything to do with it. Arent they trying to get your partner to break it off with you? Using this baby as an excuse?
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She said if they dont agree to her terms then she doesnt want the baby.
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My sister spent 20 years in an abusive situation b4 she got out. She’s 45. I read that with the disease she has her life expectancy is 48. Three years. Three years left!!! She left him several times b4 but always went back. This time I think it’s for good.
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Im sorry, my mom s in a abusive situation she dealt with it with my dad now her son.
this post makes me cry and be very angry so I’m not going to say much… @cbbrown if your partner takes the baby she doesn’t deserve you if you have to stay away from her and the baby…this is an outcry …!!
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Why do you stay with someone that lets you be abused?
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This makes me very sad @cbbrown.
Please leave!
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This is so horrible. Are your in laws related to Homo Sapiens or are they closer to pipe sludge? I mean cripes. The nerve of some people.
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I dont know sometimes, the official word is it’s not going to happen. My partner said if that’s the only way she is going to get a child then she doesnt want one.
She doesn’t want the baby, she and even my father in law dont agree with the stipulation. My mother in law and her side of the family made that rule.
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I think you need to really sit back and think on why you stay. You’re abused and probably feel stuck. You have options, even if it means giving up your pets. i onow they are important to you, but not at the expense of your mental and physical health.
I lived in an abusive relationship for 7 years, so I understand the victim mindset. You think no one else will want you, that you can’t do anything right, will never be able to take care of yourself.
But you can. one day you will look back and wonder why you took so long to leave. And you need to. Soon.
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Your in-laws are wretched people. That’s the nicest thing I can say about them.
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