My parents are much better now, but we’re awful when I was younger. I think not living with either of them is beneficial because I can let things go and shrug it off since I’m not with them all the time. I hope you find a good and healthy solution
I wouldn’t want to know what it was like for my oldest daughter. She lives with her bf and seems very happy. I’m happy for her. I feel like I wouldn’t be able to give her what she needs if she was here. If I had a basement or little apartment above a garage, she’d be happier, but I just don’t have that. So I’m glad she’s somewhere good and with a good man.