My mom n dad are a bit fed up with me

It’s great that your binge eating situation has somewhat improved.

You need a therapist that teaches CBT and food disorders in particular. So worth it for me.

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Can you move back in with your parents if you cant make rent?

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If I stop binge eating then I can pay the rent.

And pay back debt.

My parents prefer I don’t live there
Plus their landlord will not accept that.

I’m just so worried for my bf. He is not in a good place financially atm. It makes me sad.

I would like to visit him every day for emotional support whilst I search for jobs.

But my self esteem doesn’t allow it that frequently.

We decided for now once a week is good :slight_smile:

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Is there a way you can pay your rent immediately when you get your benefits payment? That way, you will not be able to use your rent money for binge eating.

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No there isn’t. But I think I’ve finally hit rock bottom. Seeing my bf struggle is the final and ultimate wake up call 2 try and stop binge eating.

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Also because I would like my kidneys to stay in reasonable shape lol.

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Well, it looks like you have some stuff you need to work through. I hope everything works out.

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Thankyou Moonbeam.

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I went there. It doesn’t really work for me but I prefer not to disclose why, here

Thanks tho. I really appreciate it

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My Sister told me last night she is in £8k debt :frowning: its horrible being in debt,

My eating habits are not great, i barely get by, its been better recently, managing to just get shopping and it helps i’m not far from shops, i have the odd take away, Idk how you are struggling with buying too much food, do yet get enough benefits? its just in my situation if i ate too much i would still have enough money,

All i can think is that you are constantly eating and purging :frowning: this what my ex did before we met yers ago, she told me she would throw up and blood wwould come out and she had to be careful that her teeth didnt decay.

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I don’t get pip and I don’t get extra money for disability.

I just get the minimal benefits cos I told them I see myself working in the future

If I can’t see myself working in the future, I would have gotten more. From UC

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Yea bulimia is also really bad. It eroded the teeth and is damaging to the digestive tract. I don’t have bulimia.

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I am glad you don’t have that, it is very nasty,

its admiral that you are still determined to work and suffer less money for your ambitions, i am in the position that i can look for work if i want to but no pressure and i can do some hours /earnings without it affecting my benefits, its a shame you struggle on so little, if i stayed nearby I’d buy you a coffee or something.

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Aw thanks. :smiling_face:

I am appealing for pip though.

That can take months for an answer.

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Is it really cold where u are. I can’t stand this. I wish my radiator was on lol.

Hard to sleep like when it’s this chilly

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I started putting my heating on a couple days ago, its cheaper than the space heater i was using or at least around the same price & its much better. it can be very depressing when its cold, gets into the bones.

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I brought my $5000 credit debt down to $500 by putting a little money towards the three accounts I have each month. If you can put a little money towards all your debts each month it might work them down gradually.

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