Her mum she’s very religious. So the fact I’m even been on holiday with my bf is somehow troubling her. My mum accepts I’m 34. Her daughter my cousib came over. She’s started asking me all these questions about what he does , where he lives , does he live with parents … Then proceeded to ask if I got any holidays planned when my mum was there. I said I’m going on holiday with him right Infront of mum. She thought I went on holiday with him without mum’s knowledge. Yeah right.
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Hell is propped up by the pillars of the church.
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She sounds awfully nosy for a cousin. Unless she was just super excited and curious.
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Nope. She’s not even of that religion. Or religious.
hey ish, she prolly heard something bout you or about both of you being together. She is maymbe questioning your situation, or how your seeing things.
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Yeah she knows about my illness. Even my uncle was like don’t hide it from him. I never have. She knows about my illness so questioning my sanity. Because she thinks it’s out of character for me to be going holidays with men like that.
She’s probably jealous.
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It’s not out of character for me to want to be in a relationship or want to be with a partner or want to go on holiday. Just because I’m shy dont talk much to her doesn’t mean I don’t or can’t have my own life.
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makes a little sense, I think some people in my family or circle may question it as well. I think we are still adults though, depending on the person or history of person maymbe it can be more delicate.
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Good to hear from you again though, ive been a bit inactive myself.
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Yeah I think so too. But she’s no Saint to be judging.
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Are you ok? @PuRpOs3
Ah, I find family dynamics like that are hard to navigate for me. Whenever my mom and I go to visit my aunt, she always asks me annoying questions and she tries to push her religion on us, so we don’t see her very often.
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It’s bloody annoying I been feeling annoyed and can’t get over her rudeness. Boasts about how she loves grandma and how my mum don’t treat her well as though she lives with us. Not once has she offered to take grandma in. If she’s that concerned.
ive been ok, could be better. Ive been considering dating again, I gotta fix myself a bit more though lol. Also I feel like I may run into the same kind problem u have now. little better or worse, ever since my illness I haven’t been in a relationship. I feel it would be a bit weird, hopefully people can be understanding. Other than that, been same as usual I guess. Im sorta in a scenario with a above average religious person. Its ok to a point, but it doesn’t really help me currently.
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I was in a similar situation for a long time. You will find someone when the time is right.
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