So, he lived with his dad until his dad died, which is when my brother in law was in his 50s.
Then he had to find a place to live and apply for disability due to his mental illness and emotional disturbances.
We won’t let him stay with us because he tried to drug me twice and that was confirmed by my husband both times
Anyway, he moved and was so overwhelmed by his second move that he just left his stuff in a U-Haul for a week until it got towed and his stuff went with it!!!
He now sleeps on the floor, and has no furniture except 2 camping chairs.
He didn’t pay his taxes for the last 5 years and has been avoiding the IRS who wants to talk to him via video call.
He also had to get rid of his car he was using to drive Uber because he got into accidents while driving stoned and never fixed the car. It became impossible to fix.
He called my husband tonight to confess all this.
Ugh. This is craziness.