On top of that my mom earlier is trying to decide when i drink. With everything i have going on do I really need this? Moral support please??
Three words. Over bearing woman.
Learn how to hide and minimize your drinking. I personally am suffering from addiction to it, not to say you are addicted, but at the same time it allows me to feel a little bit of happiness.
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Yeah, I don’t know what to do. My mom and her pervert boyfriend are a heck of a lot more interested in what I’m doing since I lost weight. That’s for sure.
At least my aunt is trying to turn me into a DR. Phil model clone meaning she seems to mean well.
I don’t drink enough to be harassed about it.
Like right now I am drinking. I’ve had three beers and it is 11 11 PM. At the same time, I can handle my alcohol and no one can tell, unless they saw me getting beer, that I am drinking. Still, I would probably be more functional in the early part of the day if I did not drink.
But at the end of the day we are adults and it is a personal choice. You don’t seem like you are manic and acting crazy. If you can handle it, what is the problem?
I’m complaining, ok. How am I suppose to get well when my mom says no hamburger today but tommarow everything has changed? Now its ok. I mean that’s the point. To get better right?
Well a hamburger every so often is ok, but not every day. Perhaps she is just trying to limit it so you keep the weight off.
No this is about suffocating intrusive power. She doesn’t care. In fact she prefers me fat because then her perverted BF is put off. Ohhh I wish these people would go meet the maker. I go to a homeless shelter and het picked up by the state. At least then I could get on with things.
I hate it when people get on my case about diet though. I never signed up for my family to act like my personal health guru and get on my case every time I have a coke zero.
Nobody said word one to me till I was 320 pounds and that was a doctor. My mom BF called my dinner my feeding. All they did was feed me. My doctor told me I was going to die. That didn’t do anything so I went of my meds and told them to take a hike. Now they are pulling the same BS. She would rather I die then correct dysfunctional behavior.
You can’t let them push your buttons.
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I’m done with this drama I hope. If this this is the life she chooses. I’m still gonna work on a strong support system.
Try to ignore your mom. Look at her, nod your head, and then do what you want.
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Generally a bad idea to mix APs with booze. Just sayin’.
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I know they don’t recommend it but my therapist knows I drink sometimes. I have to get some peace sometimes. With these family problems and my illness I have nowhere to go. Fortunately I live alone now so I have little space.
YES. Okay a box of wine, and make enough happen for all of you ladies and don’t drive but just talk…and mayble you’d have fun. No one should bean count a womans wine drinking
and don’t forget to eat Italian food afterwards, all the ladies get together and drink wine and cook n ■■■■.
Hell, that’s what my gf does with her mom!
Wine in the kitchen, and sometimes in the food.
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are you drinking alone?
Yeah, unfortunately. I don’t really no anybody but FB people.