Mother was having hot flashes when I was four

Now a days, they’d just call me a change of life baby. Back then, I don’t think mother understood what was happening to herself.

Many mothers got way in over their heads after having kids. How can they be prepared for kids? Everyone thought raising kids was easy, but no one is prepared to handle one that is more than a handful. Then some kids just love to annoy their siblings.

My comment was more about menopausal changes in mothers.

Ya, I figured that out. I just had to throw my 2cents in just because.