Mother in law drama

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So I just noticed my mother in law unfriended me on Facebook😂 I thought about it when we first got in the argument, but I was like- nah I won’t do that… well she did it anyways.

She still has my step sons mom/my husbands ex on Facebook🙄 she even has her listed as her DAUGHTER!!! Like wtf?

Supposedly she was complaining to people being like “how am I gonna see the baby??” “She (as in me) needs to apologize to me!”

Just so y’all know, the reason we got in an argument is because for some reason she suggested to me that my husbands ex babysit our baby… like what a joke.

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So your husband AND mother in law treat you like this?

You know how I feel.

This further makes my case.

I wouldn’t let her see the baby.

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I’m not going to… she doesn’t deserve to.

She obviously prefers my husbands ex over me.

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You’re in a seriously ■■■■■■ up situation.

I won’t get into it because you’re having a baby any minute and ■■■■,

But your husband and his family don’t deserve you.

Have the baby, get on your feet again, and kick him out.

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You’re telling me…

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Your mother in law doesn’t sound very pleasant. She sounds a bit manipulative too.

Try to not fall down to her level.

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Yeah🙄 she’s very fake nice… or at least that’s the vibe I’ve gotten from her the last few years.

I’m trying not to… I still don’t plan on letting her see the baby tho. My husband will prolly send her a photo after she’s born… but I’m not gonna let her come visit or anything

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This isn’t fair.
Nothing about your situation sounds reasonable @anon61987434.

I’m sorry that you are going through this.

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I would take the win and block her so she can’t friend you back or creep you online.

100%.

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It really isn’t reasonable… but so many people on my husbands side think it is🙃

And if I don’t go along with it, they think it’s “because I can’t coparent” LOL

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Omg, good idea!!! I have my account private… but I should block her in return😂

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This was my fave episode of the show Dinosaurs:

I object to the unhappy ending. Shoulda tossed the old bat.

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:joy:

Well, too bad my mother in law is pretty young… if we go by the tradition, I’d still have to put up with her for over 20 years!

@shutterbug

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It’s called getting a head start!

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I’m sorry you’re going through that, Human. I wouldn’t let her see the baby, either, if it were me. It does sound like she’s too attached to your husband’s ex.

I don’t really have in-law problems… yet… But I told my mother-in-law about my mom’s schizoaffective disorder (but didn’t mention mine). MIL said she thinks my mom is being tempted by demons!! That made my blood boil.

I don’t know if I can ever tell my MIL about my mental illness.

Anyways, sorry for derailing. I really hope that things improve with your mother-in-law. (hugs) :yellow_heart::green_heart::purple_heart:

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It’s all good, I’m just kind of relieved to hear that I’m not totally overreacting in this situation…

Right?? Like if the tables were flipped and my mom or dad had one of my exes listed as their son, that would be freakin weird! Even I would be frustrated/weirded out…

That’s SO frustrating… I think basically my husbands whole family knows about my mental illness… which at least they aren’t judgmental about it but they obviously aren’t that awesome in other ways…

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