Mom being very difficult when i need her the most

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She’s old 63 years old. I don’t know if it’s her age that she’s not looking after me very well. It has been said that it’s better to trust your family then your friends etc. But i am very close to give up on my mom. What a horrible person she is :(. She constantly tease me by talking in a very low voice to me over the phone and real life so i can’t hear her, what if that was an emergency situation? She looks at me like i am the ugliest creature! She’s also very fast with me like she’s on a race with me. Makes me wonder if my own mom is this disrespectful then other people may kill me within days. She turns off and on the light in my room without permission.

One of these days she’s going going to lock me out of the house. What’s going on?

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I live by myself. I think living with parents is not very desirable.

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Maybe that’s just how she talks?
It sounds like you’re a bit paranoid, to be honest.
Are you getting any help? Psychiatrist, therapist, medicines?

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I agree with @Pikasaur. It’s possible that she isn’t messing with you. Maybe it’s paranoia getting the best of you. I sometimes think people are out to get me.

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No paranoia, she drives me to the point I want to kill myself

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If it’s that bad, why don’t you move out? Have you looked into group homes?

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She’s looking after you well after the age when she should have stopped having to look after you. Cut her some slack here. That you have a parent who is still trying to care for you at that age is a blessing, please honour it.

You don’t sound like you’re that stable or easy to handle. I suspect she is probably doing a good job of meeting your needs, but not your wants. You will need to try to readjust your own attitude here.

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How can i readjust my additude when i can’t hear what she is saying on the phone? This gets me angry.
I am not happy with just my needs and probably need my wants as well to be happy

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hopefully things will improve for you and your mother…but try going easy on your mother…she is old

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You sound ungrateful. I feel bad for your mother. At her age she doesn’t deserve to be saddled with an ungrateful brat.

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How old are you @Abu_man? Have you always lived with your mom?

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I was living with government assistance and i had to do all the shopping while i was having panic attacks i think. I am 31

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It would be very hard to do shopping with panic attacks. I understand.

Have you tried talking to your mom about your concerns?

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I can’t explain anything

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