As I have a grandmother (well two) at home, we tend to get a lot of relatives and friends coming in and out to visit. All these old ladies like me…try to fix me up with some bunch of guys, but it never works as the guys never like me 
Guys don’t want traditional girls…guys dont trust their folks with choosing a girl
I think according to these ladies I am very traditional. That is the image of me they see. I also live at home with the grandmothers and can speak my mother tongue fluently. I don’t like pubs and clubs.
But in reality, what goes on in my mind is far from the typical traditional indian girl… or maybe I have a compeltely different view of what traditional means?? idk
But I live at home because I have no choice. I don’t mind I guess I am used to it but would rather not. I can speak my mother tongue fluently as that’s how I communicate at home. I don’t go to pubs and clubs, not because I see it as bad, but because I am an introvert. I will drink on occasations. I eat eggs (not a good sign)…
In my view a traditonal Indian girl is more of a housewife type of girl who cooks and cleans and stays at home and looks after the elderly mother in law and father in law… is that me? I am not against living with in-laws or looking after them…but I am not like mum. I would not find it easy to bathe my mother in law day in day out. I would accept help for that… nurses and all… I am used to the large family structure… but omg don’t ask me to cook i HATE it with passion … I will also not bear children…
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you do not like cooking?
That is unusual.
Hopefully your future man/husband will be able to cook for you.
Do you not want to have children at all?
It is difficult finding a man who doesn’t want to have children unless he already has some.
When I was looking on dating sites I was mainly looking for a man with out children and who does not want any.
Awesome that you speak your native tongue fluently and that you are loved and liked amoung the ladies.
Good wishes to you Ish.
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I hate cooking, I can’t do it… I can’t cook more than a cheese on toast… I have no motivation to learn - Haha I did once find a chef who turned out to be a douche lol I will learn though eventually 
it has to be done…
I want children. In fact I struggle with this a lot. But I need to think of the future… I find it incredibly hard to look after myself I am not sure if it would be a healthy choice to have a child. I can give in and have the child, but it won’t be fair on the kid if I am constantly falling ill and unable to care for him/her. I know I have found it hard to find a guy who doesn’t want kids, most of those just want fun… but I can only hope … i can’t change my mind just to find the right guy its not fair… i would prefer to remain single…
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I am open to dating someone with kids, but I may not be able to take full responsibility… I would need help…
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Do you know what type of guy you are looking for as a partner/husband/boyfriend?
Lots of men like traditional women.
What is happening with these guys that people are matching you with?
I don’t even get to meet them lol. They say no before meeting me cos they probably know the ladies would choose a traditional girl.
I just want someone i can spend time at home with watching tv on a sofa and go shopping with so he can hold my bags and also go holidays with.
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why don’t you write that on your dating profile?
Wish I can help you :o)
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Haha I hope you know I’m kidding with the shopping bit. I hate shopping unless it’s online
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it is funny :o) I mean just write what you want and that’s it! Maybe also post a non-snapchat picture without a teddy bear 
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to me a marriage is about two families. Getting married to the guy I’m also getting blessed with a whole new family… isn’t that cool?
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are you still off meds
yeah - it is definitely a blessing 
Lools what’s wrong with my bear. I get what you mean though… doesn’t attract the over 30s. I’ve struggled with finding someone older.
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Why you say that… I’m feeling a little odd … not psychotic not depressed but possibly manic. Doesn’t show outwardly. Maybe it can be recognised by my thoughts expressed here than those around me.
i am sure your bear is awesome
I feel like you re a bit manic
Do you want me to create your dating profile? It is so much fun for me! It is pure entertainment
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Haha I’ve still got a little grip on myself a little. I’m not sure the dating thing is a good idea. No one else can see I’m manic. Not anyone outside the internet. At least you guys don’t know me so I’m ok to make a fool here
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Can you see though … I started the topic talking about boobs and getting uncomfortable and then I started getting confident about them and ok with the attention. This thing sucks. Not knowing what my real thoughts are
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It is only funny. :o) I am similar when having symptoms so chillax…
Hope you have a nice day.
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Loools I’ll try. Going shopping soon and to catch a movie.
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You have a good day as well
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