K how would you take this

I did a med change of abilify from 30-20 mg last Wednesday and my dog got “old dog” periodontal disease (cleaned by vet last year but apparently happens) had 6 teeth pulled and tumor removed which was why we went to vet…had to cut into jaw bone. Biopsy results still waiting on…(If wondering about dad from last weeks post I let go)

Anyways, last night my husband told me I was neglecting my duties. I haven’t cleaned the house well enough in the last week and if don’t start cleaning and have it spic and span by tonight he is hiring a maid service until I can get over my problems. Wtf, like I need this ■■■■ so of course we argued etc.

Would you say fine do it? Or not want strangers in your house and after he leaves for work be ocd to themax though feel like crap and worse cuz feel “invading on your space”?

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Tell him if he’s able to bitch he’s able to clean. It’s not your obligation to be his maid. I’m sorry he’s being such a tosser

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Why can’t he clean the house?

I don’t understand why you have to be the one to clean the house, anyway.

“If they’re able to bitch then they’re able to _____” is my new favorite phrase.

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He takes care of yard me house. I’ve been cleaning all day and am pooped. Not worth arguing over cuz he can be a pain in the ass. We have a frickin 3000 sq ft two story…I have been on a mission and now feel like I could pass out. Hmmm is this cardio or lifting. I think it’s like circuits scrub vacuum make food, etc lol. I think cleaners are getting too me :crazy_face:

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This is why I will never marry. :wink:

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Lol I won’t remarry if something happens but love my husband

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I’m just glad my marriage ended 31 years ago, and never to do it again. And I DO have a maid.

Personally, I would divorce him, ■■■■ his best friend, send him a picture of you ■■■■■■■ his best friend, then move on in life and find someone much better.

I’m apparently an extremist though, people have told me.

I’m almost certain you won’t do that. But that’s why it’s not really advice to you. It’s just what I would do personally.

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Nah cleaned all day. He’s been with me in sickness anndhealth

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