I've never had a girlfriend

I’ve never had a girlfriend…and I’ve never kissed a girl. Also I have never been on a date before either. I’m 41 years old. Is anybody else in the same boat. be brave lol lol!!!

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I have had a girl as a friend though. We hung out for like six months or so. I was like 21 years old. We stopped hanging out though, because of a misunderstanding.

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Just do it. It’s about time.

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Been in two extremely unhealthy relationships. Both ended in psychosis. I’m 31

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Are you saying it is better to not ever have a relationship, than being in a bad relationship?

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I was going to say, this is a Quality over Quantity type of discussion…

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ever watched the 40 year old virgin? good movie :laughing:

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I’ve been dry for like 8 years now,
I had a couple opportunities here and there to ■■■■ but didn’t follow through with them.
23 atm

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I mean these relationships were so bad I went psychotic. I’m not entirely sure if that was the cause but I can imagine it contributed. I would from now on rather be single than in a relationship where u feel not yourself. For sure. Its not worth it.

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I been in heahly and unheathly relationships and friendshids. I am 24. Just go for it dude. Just be sure you don’t get abused. Remenber you are the most important person in this life. Cuz this is your life.

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plus women past 35 are usually begging to get married… to them, any relationship is an opportunity to get married lol, so all you gotta do is make an effort lol

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I’m shy and I don’t talk enough, so it is not that easy for me. but I could get a girlfriend that talks a lot.

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Potato, potato,

ching chong tomato.

:tomato::potato:

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not proud of this… but I’ve also never had a girlfriend lol :smile: had plenty of chances - 3 literally direct chances, but I never bite the bait…
But if I did choose, my perfect girlfriend would be one who makes me content in just being around her

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oh, are you just joking around?

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no, but I have good reason… 1st time I tried getting a girlfriend, I literally got cancer… fast forward past the too sick to care about getting a girlfriend… I get schizophrenia, and even the idea of getting a girlfriend bacame a dead thought… likes who cares about getting a girl while thinking your neighbour is literally the enemy lol -schizo voices and all

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but if honestly speaking… If I don’t find a way to get rid of this schizophrenia once and for all… I’ll probably end up like you…lol , but I should mention earlier this year, one of my moms friends literally tried hooking me up with her daughter, through my mom lol… when my mom told me, I just laughed and told her no

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'like a literal arranged marriage lol

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I lost my Virginity age 16
Had some girl friends
Aborted my son age 19
Eh.
I prefer single life it’s less stressful.

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Women over 35 are not desperate.

:expressionless:

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