It's bad to isolate yourself?

I was wordering wich is worse …

Isolate oneself and work on oneself mentally and physically, finding pleasure in music, books or something.

Or

Keep doing “”"“normal”"’’ life with a friends that seems not really enjoy your company and where you do not feel very well even being yours friends of all life.

??

Any answer it’s wellcome

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I have few friends irl to isolate myself from.

“Moderation in all things.”

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I’m alone 99% of the time, for probably 30 years now, it take a toll on a person

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I don’t know what you want to say with take a toll on a person :confused:

Wears a person down, lose hope a battle everyday

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It’s difficult…

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I just have few :sweat_smile:

Good for you though. I don’t have any that I’ve seen irl in the past probably year or two. I guess it’s bad if it strains your relationships.

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if you can [quote=“Indecisive, post:1, topic:80952”]
work on oneself mentally and physically, finding pleasure in music, books or something
[/quote] than i would think about that option seriously

otherwise im for socialization
its a good thing to be together with people
trying your best

I think it’s hard to enjoy one without the other. We need others to make solitude meaningful. And if you spend all your time with others, you’ll need to reconnect with yourself eventually. So, balance.

Of course I mostly isolate… it’s not good for me.

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Doing what you like is good, solo or with friends matters not, as long as you can do both, neither hurt.

I just need to lost hope, with the little that it remains :roll_eyes::sweat:

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No… No so bad but I feel uncomfortable, and my bad abbility to make decisions put menim bad situations, I dont know, it’s hard to explain, I think I should talk with my psychologist.

isolation is always bad .!!

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Sounds like a good idea :slight_smile:

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I isolate myself and I don’t think it is necessarily a bad thing if you enjoy yourself while you are isolating. I spend most of my time alone and I spend it doing things that I enjoy like playing my keyboard, doing yoga, meditating, reading my novels, praying, talking to my friends on the phone, surfing the internet, and spending time with my cat.

When I’m alone I just surf internet and watch tv… Not much productive things I think.

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work on it… give yourself breaks xxx mixture of outside life - doesn’t have to be too much - few hours a week on non essentials

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I have trouble with in person relationships I prefer to issolate and socialize online its easier for me

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