Isn't a relationship love AND hate?

Right, love and hate spring from the mind.

They did tests on people, and love and obsession are actually synonymous with each other in cause. The way a person acts on it determines which is it. For me, love for my ex was more, I was concerned about her well being and thought of her before I did anything at all.

Hell I even left her because I thought she’d be happier because of how she was acting towards me. In retrospect we’re probably both better off. Sad thing is I still sometimes wonder if she’s doing OK, despite I found out her whole sob story when I tried to get back with her, was most likely a lie.