After all the last ■■■■ experiences , I am not going to lie today I’m feeling this one is the same. I mean we’ve been talking almost 3 months … and I’ve not experience to know if this is going too fast … is it normal to want to think about sex after that long ?
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Yeah. 151515151515
Yes it’s paranoa ?
It’s totally normal to want to think about sex after 3 months.
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Hell, it’s normal after 3 minutes if you’re attracted to them.
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I’d say you’re taking it quite slow. I haven’t been with many women, but usually the first sex occurs after around three dates, give or take one.
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So I have nothing to worry about. We’ve been on 6 or more 
Just to add we talk every single day it just felt like it needs to go there
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Nothing at all. You’re taking it at whatever speed you feel appropriate. That’s exactly how it should be.
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He did say he’s happy to wait as long as I want. It kinda freaks me out if he means it no one can be that nice.
With my wife we waited about 5 days. We were 22
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I’m feeling more relaxed now
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Everyone SHOULD be that nice! It’s a good thing. Not every guy is a sex hound. Maybe his sex drive isn’t super high. Maybe he’s also on some psych meds and his make his sex drive lower. Maybe he is just a decent guy and has self control!
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No I agree. But I’ve just had terrible experiences with dating sites. So he’s a breath of fresh air so much that I don’t know what to think.
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Think good things! He seems like a really good guy.
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At this point it would be weird that you HAVEN’t had thoughts of having sex.
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Is your guy religious? If he is, that would explain his willingness to wait a while before starting in on the sex part.