Is this a reason to end it with a guy

I watsapped him :two_hearts: this emoji he read it and didn’t respond.

He is a guy that I’ve spoken to for about over a month we met once
Maybe I’m being dramatic, maybe not.

Lol I feel this is ridiculous like I’m making a huge fuss over nothing

I should add, I feel the need to drink when I see him… For now… Bad right?

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In the days i was dating - i was for straightforward and persistent.

I guess I had no shame. I also didn’t take anything personally - that made it easier.

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Yes that is bad. :dog2::dog2::dog2:

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I don’t think it would stay like that, but atm though yes I do feel that need… Still bad?

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Well no response - can mean anything - like busy - not checking phone - or the worst case scenario.

It can mean something - or nothing - (a no response)

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Maybe he just read it but couldn’t respond. It happens

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When I end it, I miss him, when it’s continuing, I feel like something is not quite right

How can you “end it” with a guy you have only met once? There’s nothing to “end”

End the talking… Obviously

@Zoe - Have you been diagnosed with OCD? You have an obsession with dating/seeing guys. It’s all you talk about on here

I have no idea how to get over him.

I don’t know…,

I’d like to hear others opinion on that or if that’s just your opinion

Tbf

I don’t really feel like myself on here but am trying

I think ending things without knowing the possibility - fear of the worst - is a safety mechanism.

My approach would be to end it because you know for sure there is no reason for it to continue. I’d be like more forward and want to know where you guys stand after 1 mo. Of comms.

Those “read receipts” can really ■■■■ ■■■■ up sometimes.

I turn my read receipts off - paranoia.

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Aww thankyou for the help.

That’s just it I know it’s good to go out your comfort zone but idk if I’m going out too far.

Cos I really do feel kind of uncomfortable

But when I end the random chat, I miss him sorta

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I’m talking to a girl we text and we have them off it’s for the best cuz we can text and wait long to respond if we are in a bad mood instead of worrying about appeasing the other person for seeing I read their text but no response…

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