Is there a better way?

Health and Recovery
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I push people away

One example is at university 13 years ago, a girl on a course I was doing I know now was interested in me based on hindsight

But I ended up saying everything I could to ruin any chance of even being friends

There are lots of examples but that’s probably the most stark one I can think of right now

When I was growing up I had a baptism of fire by way of misplaced loyalty and not being able to see these relationships as purely abusive

So now as an adult I am a lone wolf as some might say

This has made things a lot less complicated but I know I am also missing out on living

That said I am living the best way I can.

However I feel ready to give up the ghost more and more now and fail to see the point in just wasting other people’s oxygen

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I think the key is balance. Don’t wanna make your social life every thing, and don’t wanna not have one at all. It’s one aspect of life.

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There is always a better way.

My new year plan is to make two new friends this year.

Let see how will it go.

You should try too.

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