Is sexual relations important for you?

  • Very important
  • Fun sometimes
  • Not important

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Nope.
:crazy_face:

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I’m married, so sex is important.

We don’t do it like we did in our twenties,

But we’re doing it a good bit.

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Haven’t had relations for 7 years. My physical health has been bad for many years due to insomnia and other tings. And I haven’t really felt ready or that I have had anything to offer because of this.

Health has improved the last few years though, so maybe I will start dating again.

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Also married. And these meds are trying to kill my boners. No, I say. My wife is in her dirty thirties.

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I’ve gone thru long periods of no sex at all, no dating, just nothing.

but now I’ve got Phil, and we’re pretty active.

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The last time i had sex, my arthritis in my back was killing me. So, i enjoy masturbating. I think when i have sex its naturally masochistic. I avoid it.

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it’s so true about the dirty thirties,
but I won’t share. ha.

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I used to be asexual. Now, I am interested in sex, but I don’t find it to be of great importance or anything. I can just as easily handle things on my own.

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I will say I do find cuddles to be of great importance in my life. I really feel a decline in my mental health on busy days when Mr. Star and I don’t get snuggle time, and I’ve had a real hard time coping with not being able to snuggle my friends because of covid.

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depends upon the weather for me, usually in winter it’s good to snuggle,
but I’m hot all the time.
long story.

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If it happens—it happens and I’m fine with it.
If it doesn’t happen—I’m fine with that too.

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I’m also of the wait and see…Like it’s a great thing but I’m 50 and way less hornier than when I was younger. Like I thought about a lot of important stuff but when your in the mood your in the mood.

These days though I’m on a restricted income and live with my father. Not really in a space to date so it’s not a priority in my life. Sure it would be great to get some but it’s not the deal breaker it used to be.

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My antidepressant has totally zapped my libido. Wife understands and copes well. She’d rather see me in a better frame of mind than circling the drain. To be honest, I would too. I had my escapades of my 20s, so I’ve had my fill. That wouldn’t fly for a lot of people, but I’m just grateful I had the experiences I did. I think my wife feels the same way. Besides, she has some girl difficulties I won’t elaborate on, but let’s just say we’re okay with turning off the volume.

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I don’t have sex with my gf but take care of myself…

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No I wish I didn’t even masterbait

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Nah, it used to be important, but now I am older and not interested.

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İts not important because i look disgusting.sex is only has meaning when you are young and good in shape.there is no meaning and fun when you look like jabba the hutt

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I’ve miss voted… I meant to vote fun sometimes

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It’s like art… with right emotion and good energy it nice but just an act of sex is like meh just feels empty. But is addicting

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