In your opinion, when would you consider on cheating on someone you love? How bad is this?
I have never cheated but I have thought about it. But with someone I fell in love with.
I always took great value in integrity and honesty and trust. I always thought I should love and respect the person I’m with. But sometimes I think, what the hell? Life is short? I just take caution not to get hurt especially because I have an illness.
Maybe we should have an open relationship in the future.
I consider myself pretty open minded but still I wouldn’t like the notion that my significant other cheat on me. By cheating I consider a physical contact, like making out or having sex. Everything that stayes within the limits of imagination is fine for me - we are all weak and suggestive creatures.
You can hurt the other person very much if he/she finds it out…that is obvious. I don’t like to hurt people so…in my opinion, it is not okay.
yeah that is very good viewpoint. I would never want to hurt him too.
Yeah…I guess mistakes can be made…like if you are very drunk…things can happen …but the question is how drunk is bad enough? 
Most people consider BPD people as highly untrustworth…I’m trying to get out of that etiquette.
you are absolutely right. some people are just born like that. ;o)
The problem is if my boyfriend was a douchebag, there wouldn’t be any issues. But he’s like a gentleman sent from heaven.
Thinking about it and acting on that thought are two different things.
Thinking about it = ok
Acting on that thought = not ok
I just wonder why you’ve thought about it, when your boyfriend is like a gentleman sent from heaven?
I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I love him a lot. But this guy, I just connect with him on a different level. I know it’s not ok but sometimes I think it’s worth it.
Either open up the relationship or text a quick break-up prior to hooking up with someone else.
Most people hate being cheated on.
Nothing is wrong with being interested in someone else. Acting on it, though, can be hurtful.
It’s like loving two guys at the same time?
I don’t know much about such feelings but maybe it’s because you’re happy with your boyfriend and getting used to it?
I don’t love him but he intrigues me a lot. I’m gonna let it go and move on with my life though. I always did the right thing.
Honestly, he told me, he has no education, no money, he doesn’t have a career or anything worth. I just like him a lot. What the hell is wrong with me?>!
I dunno, but do the right thing, as you always did.
It will pass…
Just a phase.
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