What interests do you two have? Common hobbies, background or something?
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That’s probably not her real picture.
Ask to see a picture of her holding up something with today’s date on it, then see what she does. Anyone, verified or not, who offers to relocate after only talking a week, is trouble. Even if it’s not a scam, which it probably is, they are someone who doesn’t have healthy boundaries.
It’s a bad idea. I agree with everyone else. Back away before this becomes worse.
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I would continue to converse with her online before giving any personal information for sure. Talk about your day with her. You can talk about anything. See if you have any common interests. Meeting new people is always interesting.
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Wow, impressive.
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Relationships require honesty and openness.
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I am going to let it go. I don’t think it is a fake profile, it is quite real, I can critically examine a profile.
But, I have other things in my mind. All the loving and talking ain’t for me.
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That is not a very good idea to be honest. I can whatsapp call with her, if I really wanted to, and see her image on the screen.
Some advice maybe
If you are looking for something like a fling or one night stand
Why not mention it on your profile.
I’ve never heard of that site.
You could try more sites too
Like pof
Bumble
Okcupid
Good luck I wish you well
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Why not?
Anyway, as I said, someone who is talking relocation after only a week is trouble, in one way or another.
But you don’t seem like you are willing to be talked out of it, so I will just wish you the best of luck.
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Yeah, I know what you mean. All the websites are there. But, I am not at a place where you get one night stands. I don’t live in the US.
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Oh sorry to hear that 
You are underestimating my ability to see if a profile is real or not. Besides that, she is not asking for money bro…she means if we are friends and we get to know each other on the phone and video, then she may travel if need be.
First of all, I’m not a bro. I’m a woman.
Second of all, like I said – you seem pretty confident in this, so I will say again: Good luck. I hope it works out the way you want it to.
Edit: Scammers are really good at what they do. The most savvy person can fall for it. Just be careful. That’s what we’re all saying.
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In all honesty, it’s a scam. I’m sorry you got your hopes up too high to see that. Since you’re not willing to listen to any of us, I’ll just say good luck with everything
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Ok, I agree…I have let it go regardless. She checked my profile out today again and I got an email saying that she looked at my profile, and I was in a fix. The reason being, that I don’t want to be manipulative and start a conversation with someone who is interested in a relationship sort of a thing, and I am just looking for something discreet.
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Some websites are complete garbage. They hire people to create profiles and talk to members so people pay for membership fees and other content and stuff.
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I pay the website 35 dollars for a 3 month subscription.
Do you think they will be paying someone 20 dollars an hour to talk with me on the phone multiple hours a day?
I just mean to say that it is definitely a real profile and the woman is not exactly Pamela Anderson, she is a hot woman though…and she seems interested in knowing me better, not traveling just like that…what is so unbelievable about that?
Many other forum members have provided their advice whether it be moving to a location too fast, requests for money and or you showing your primary residential address. From my perspective, the duration of the relationship is too short. Give the relationship 1 month and see if the relationship continues or not.
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I agree. 151515
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Anyway just be careful. If the person requests anything immediately cut off contact. The longer you talk to them the more likely you will give them something.
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