I'm scared I'm ill again!

I posted a few days ago about this guy and I was suspicious of him being after citizenship because i have a british passport.

Ok well here’s an update. He tried to call me through facebook. I told his friend and my cousin this and asked them why he’s calling me (luckily he doesn’t have my number its only facebook phone). Then I asked him directly and he said it was an accident and said sorry. Is it really possible to call someone by accident? He posts these things on his facebook and I am starting to get really suspicious. Like he post a half naked pose of himself and said i’m yours. Funny but yuk. Shall I just delete him or could he be saying these things to someone else? Maybe I’m just being paranoid. I don’t want to like him at all because none of my family approve.

if he’s posting half naked pictures of himself to u then u can bet ur arse that he’s sending them to other girls. he obviously has no modesty. i would just delete him hunni. xxx

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Its his profile pic. EVERYBODY can see it. You’re right though this guy seems dodgy to me

He might not be trying for your citizenship… but he’s making your inner bell / red flag take notice. It sounds like if you did get mixed up in this guy it would cause a lot of un-needed family drama and complication.

Friendships and relationships don’t need to be complicated.

If he’s coming on strong you can tell him that’s not the way to your heart. If you family really does not like him, you can let him know. It might be easier for both of you.

Good luck.

Thats the thing i can’t really tell what his intentions are if at all he has any. Thats what makes me think maybe i’M being paranoid and really he is genuinely n alright person after all. which is why i can’t delete him.

well there’s no harm in being facebook buddies right? so long as u know where u stand then he can’t hurt u or use u for a visa. xxx

I’ve been on Craigslist looking for apartments and I know not to look in the personals. There are just ■■■■■ pics galore in there. … Enough about me …

“Yes, dump him” was my first reaction, but I’ve been out of the dating scene for a while and I don’t know the customs of you whipper snappers. How old is he? If he’s 18 or 19 I’d let it slide as a young person’s joke, but if he’s 30… run girl, run!

Haha he’s actually 33…

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You have your answer. :laughing: :sun_with_face: :octopus: (those last two emoticons are random)

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