So I’m on a date at Dave and busters and my thought broadcasting is basically making me assume horrible things .words words words why do certain words I think and people say out loud bother me so much that I jus shut down
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you’re on a date!!! :O
teach me the ways.
hopefully my post is a good distraction and makes you feel better on the date, bud.
just chill and keep cool. maybe leave the crowd and go for a walk, just the two of you
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ask them about their favorite tv show or the last movie they watched…anything that will make them ramble on sometimes its easier to pretend to listen than trying to fully engage in talking…
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flameoftherhine with the smooth moves.
alas, I can’t provide any first-hand input, as I’ve never been on a date.
I write poems about dates.
though they are quite fictional, so won’t be of much help.
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I can’t date without losing my ■■■■.
Good for you. Dave and busters would cause me to have a seizure.
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I pretty much went silent while she ordered food silent while she was eating.This delectable woman got angry and asked for the check.Once I could tell she was upset I walked ahead .After failing at finding her car myself I have to wait for her .We walked to the car get in she blasts her music calls her friend and ditches me lol.When we get back to the house her friend is "oh he’s here "the girl im dating says "my bestfriend knows im mad at you "I don’t mind because I have given her le’ beef stroganoff.
that’s probably why she was angry. not your fault, dude. although, some singles do talk about favorite foods before going on the first date, I would think. for example, vegetarians don’t eat meat.
but I’m happy you made it back in one piece, and not in a psych ward. you kept your cool. that’s good.