I think women are beautiful and that makes me nervous!

Health and Recovery
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I have to stop romanticizing women, I think women are too pretty. I get very nervous around women and it’s embarrassing. I need to get past the female illusion.

How do I do it?

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I must be the exception

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What do you mean? I can see something attractive in every woman. I’m sure you look good.

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Im full of ugliness, really i dont feel attractive

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I’m sorry you feel that way.

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Thanks @Speedy ive felt this way since teens mostly

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I feel that way about my body.

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It sucks feeling like this but hey ho, we make up for it in other ways

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There’s a guy at my clubhouse who has been hitting on me and it makes me feel very uncomfortable. Today he said “you look pretty today” and i don’t want to be mean to him cuz I’ve helped him with mental health issues in the past, but I’ve felt ugly my whole life and a guy hitting on me makes me feel like he’s making fun of me. I don’t like it at all…

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Maybe he’s just being friendly?

But I totally understand if it feels as if he pushed a boundary there.

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I was attracted to my hubbys personality more than his looks tbh and he has a unique wild personality, not to everyones taste. We accept each other warts an all.

Im just saying its not all about physical attraction @WhiteRaven

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I know i look different since losing weight, but i still don’t consider myself physically attractive. I’ve helped this person out in the hospital and once at the clinic when he didn’t want to get his shot cuz he thought they were going to rape him. So maybe he does just like my personality, but i don’t know. I have to tell him I’m not interested but i don’t know how to do it without damaging our friendship.

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These things can be tricky.

Hopefully it’ll pass without it becoming uncomfortable.

Maybe he’s just being friendly.

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I find this dillema difficult. I sometimes just want to mention to women here and there that i think they look nice or pretty. Its hard to tell if a chick will take it well or get offended or something. I never mean for it to go anywhere. Sometimes its just baffling how cute some women can be. I have a girlfriend so im not looking for a date or anything.
Is it better to just not ever tell women they look nice? So as to avoid possible negative reactions?

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There are no exceptions.

:heart:

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women are beautiful…embrace that, don’t run away from it…be excited that they are pretty but settle down enough that you can interact.

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