I heard people complaining about being so lonely and they didn’t even tried online dating or similar. I heard people complaining about being so ill and they not even take their meds. And the examples can continue… We live in a sick world. Very true… 
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Let me tell you what I think.
What may work for you may not work for someone else…as for taking medicine at certain doses it is a matter of trial and error. It also depends on your desired outcome, do you want quality of life, functioning, reduce agitation, avoid dependence etc. everyone has different goals and needs.
Doctors are better at making these decisions for us, even then they cannot put us on a regimen without telling us the potential benefits and downsides of a certain treatment.
Back to online dating, all I can say is that it is not the only solution for loneliness, everyone has a different life and situation. What works for you may not work for others is what I’m saying.
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To be brief I want to say: people say “I can’t” before they even try
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Maybe they are just being careful because they know making big changes can be dangerous. The danger is even more real when you aren’t mentally stable and can fall apart at any time. People go on online dating and get abused. People take a certain medication and develop serious issues and find it is not for them. Self preservation is a strong human instinct, we fear the unknown because we know it can hurt us or even kill us. At the same time we can be fascinated by it and want to conquer it. Both reactions can lead to errors with serious consequences. Even inaction can lead to you getting hurt. The best decision is not always the clear.
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Yeah, you’re right!!! But how can you know if you didn’t tried it? This is madness. Anyway I don’t like fights, so logging out now. Thanks
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You’re being a little judgemental. People have reasons for what they do or don’t do and some of it is out of their control. Online dating sites are not for everybody across the board.
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It might be more productive to help these people instead of condemning them. People need a little “push” sometimes and criticizing them does not get anyone anywhere.
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