I struggle to know my father had an unhealthy mind

He was so afraid I’d get hurt. It was paralyzing. Ironically, the danger was himself.

So are you saying he was abusive?

Yes. 15151515151515

Ok I found it cryptic, but i kinda got it.

You’re not the first one to call me cryptic. I meant to explain that he did not want me to be active in any way for fear I’d get hurt but that his violence was the unavoidable danger he seemed to try to protect me from. I call it his having hostile fears.

My father was the same way. He was the biggest danger in our lives.

You’re not cryptic just that sentence.
My dad was the same way, not much I could do about it.

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