I must not know how to people

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I don’t understand people at all…

Why say you hate/dislike someone… then comment “love you” and other overly nice stuff to them?

Like, if I don’t like someone… I’m not interacting with them…

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I assume that you are talking about people irl and not on the forum?

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Lol. Definitely people in real life.. in my personal life

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I dunno. People are complicated and fickle. Some people don’t know what they think I guess.

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That’s very true

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It’s hard to know what else to say without knowing the details, which I am assuming based on the vagueness of your post, that you are not wanting to share atm.

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I personally find it possible to love someone but dislike them at the same time. Not in all cases I must admit. But in some.

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For example I kind of love my sister as we grew up together and share memories but I hate her guts too

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Yeah, it’s okay. Thanks for trying. I’m in a pissy mood so don’t mind me lol

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I feel you… like I talk crap about my sister to my mom sometimes, but I still like her/love her (most of the time lol)

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But if it ain’t family…

I don’t know what the point is really

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Maybe to give ppl second chances etc.

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Yeah, I guess.

Maybe I’m just too cynical lol :sweat_smile:

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IDK. A lot of people have crap relationships with family but have good relationships with husbands/wives/friends etc. I don’t think blood is always necessarily thicker than water.

Ok, so technically blood is thicker than water, but you get my meaning :stuck_out_tongue: .

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Idk… You’re just wondering I suppose.

I mean for example I know someone I don’t like some of their tendancies but no one is perfect. He has some good traits too. So we just keep in touch by watsapp now instead of meeting. And we enjoy what we like about each other and kind of remind each other of what we find stressful if it comes up.

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:joy: yeah, I get it

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Also, I crave companionship so I’m willing to accept people as they are even if they have some things I don’t like. After all, they are also accepting me, someone who is not the most perfect person either lol

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I don’t like my sister very much but I love her.

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