here i am :):
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thanks ever 
and for the others, send me some photos if you have a time to lose please 
my mom thinks that its not the best to hide my fat face with longer hair, she says ill look like a witch wow…
Definately got to get your hair to atleast your chin. It will frame your face nicely 
Witches are hot
its not easy to be me. I look bad, I make those difforming grimaces cause I suffer a lot still…I hope it will change but the damages are here. I just look like crap, no hair will help 
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Cheer up, atleast your not one of these people: http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/
And I got nothing against Walmart
no, I hadn’t this chance to look pretty. some people outside stare at me really strangely. its not nothing to have had 17 years of isolation behind yourself. some sz had a chance to not be touched physically but my symptoms difformed me :(.
I don’t see you as deformed at all. I still think some sun would help, but you’re alright in my book
ok, thanks. I know that I should start to love myself but my illness plays me tricks on this…plus my ex told me that I look very bad because of the meds. he was against them and I guess a lot of people outside are against them… and sometimes just to love ourselves is not enough, the damages from the illness and the chemistry are on my face.
Hey, theres some of you here who voted for short I just can have a little bit longer hair but still keep it short cause I find that when you are too fat, the long hair can only hide your face idk…
I am just worried that ill continue to be so passive and it will affect my body :/…
short hairs are trendy dont they?
Hey @Anna1 I voted short because short seems more comfortable.
You have a nice face @Anna1
I think that shorter hair suits you nicely.
@Anna1, I don’t like it when you put yourself down. You’re pretty. You are pretty with short hair, and you would be pretty with long hair. You should have whatever hairstyle makes you happiest.
My hair is short, and I love it that way, because it’s so much less work.
yeah but I am so swollen by the meds, its not nice to have this on your back. you all say sarad here looks fine, she has no sz, its hell this illness. I cant make anymore efforts to be better. sometimes those meds kill my emotions, how ill function again with this?
wtv, thanks to your comments, ill be unhappy with any haircut, I cant love myself now, I have no emotions for it…
Do whatever makes you most comfortable and you like best. If you like short hair, keep it short. If you like long hair, grow it out. Having self confidence and self esteem is more important to attractiveness than physical looks. You have to be comfortable in your own skin.
That being said, most males tend to prefer women with longer hair if you’re trying to find a boyfriend. But doing what make you feel best and boosts your self esteem is far more important.
You should try looking in the mirror and finding three things to compliment yourself on every day. That’s what I do when I have low self-esteem. I can start you off with one. You have very soulful, expressive eyes.
thanks ninja, its my illness :/. idk why I turned to be like this… maybe some lack of love in my family, maybe those theories about the traumas are true at the end… I was also abused sexually at my 6 from the bf of my sister… now, the most of the time, I am asz zombie :D.
thanks for the compliment ninja, its the last thing that I have lol
I think your short hair looks nice @Anna1 Of course, if you grow it out, you can see if you like it longer and, if you don’t like it, you can just cut it shorter again.
Anna
Honestly, you look beautiful…and I really love your hair btw. I also think you’d look good with longer hair as well. But I’m thinking that your going to look beautiful regardless of what hairstyle length you chose because you’re so pretty…but I kind of feel like you’re not going to believe me, or whoever else when they tell you that because (I could be wrong) it seems like you’re so down on yourself, and having schizophrenia, that you can’t see all the beauty that you still have, maybe you’re depressed I don’t know, but I know that I see it. Obviously I only have a picture to refer to and I’ve seen you post other pictures too, but I genuinely wanted to tell you that just because you have schizophrenia, and just because maybe you gained some weight during that time period, does not mean in ANY way that you’re not beautiful. Don’t compare yourself to other people so much either, we’re all different, we have flaws but most importantly we all have things about us that are simply amazing and unique! Realize those things about urself, write them down or whatever, and focus on them. Not the negative.
lol And I hope this isn’t weird for me to say to you, it’s just that over the time of being on this site, and seeing a lot of things you say about yourself, I just wanted to be honest with you, and try to answer ur question that you asked and also say a little bit more.
Anna sup…what are u doing…may u find peace soon…
