Just there were too many unsuccessful relationships in my life. I fall too many times for people, which were not serious about me.
Overall, I still think about myself as a successful, lucky person. I am just not lucky when it comes to love.
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I could agree with you for me relationships only last for so long… like 5-10 years really!
Wdit: we grow apart
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Also, I am so tired of my life. I truly hate it. I hate the fact that my life never changes no matter what I do… I am so so tired of similar situations repeating, of awful feelings I have everyday
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It could be better, but it also could be worse… I feel like I’m doing alright one day, but the next it changes. I think it’s me I have to work on, both my psychs are helping me, it would be nice to see them daily until I get the hang of it…
I don’t know what to say, hope things work out! Success isn’t always linear you know!
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I’ve had nothing but unsuccessful relationships. I haven’t had a girlfriend since I was 15 or 16 and I’m 34 now. I don’t think I’ll ever get another girlfriend but I’m ok with that.
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How old are you again? @anon8411913
Anyways- I truly hope you find someone that you mesh well with.
I’m sure they’re somewhere out there 
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Soon 24. I know I am quite young, but many people my age already have stable relationships. Or atleast had some good relationships in their lives.
I feel like I’ll be forever unsuccessful. 
but thanks for supporting 
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Just love yourself…talk to yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you are worthy of a loving partner…give yourself time…you are oh so young.
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I’m still not sure if I want a relationship and I’m still not sure if I’m over the music therapist. It’s just when I was there yesterday, I really wasn’t in the mood to be turned on by anyone, tbh. I’ve gotten used to being vulnerable in that setting, but when I’m out and about in the community, that’s a whole different story. You definitely need it if you’re any kind of singer and just as much when you’re in a close, loving relationship.
Love does exist. I have felt it before. Unfortunately it’s with a girl who doesn’t feel the same about me.
Hey, at least you’ve had love, some of us haven’t even had that. I’m 21, and no girl has ever flirted with me or been in a relationship with me.
So you think, @John_Raven, but maybe because of your illness, you missed the cues!?
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Maybe, I hope not. I also think no woman should be put through me. I’m a mess, and likely forever be a mess.
I’ve been in love.
Not a big fan.
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34 years ago I was standing in a Club watching a local band.
This young gal came right up to me and asked me if I’d like to have a drink with her. Twin daughters…2 cats and a scruffy dog later…we’re still chugging along.
Love will walk into the room for you one day. Just be patient, @anon8411913 
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Hi @Mike785!
I see you’ve just joined us here recently! Welcome aboard!
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I used to be Mim130, @Patrick. Thanks for the welcoming, anyway!
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I have love in my life. I did find love as wanting to be with somebody for the rest of their life. Not wanting any harm or suffering done to the ones you love. Wanting to see your love ones succeed and comfort them when they feel they’re not succeeding. To show your loved ones the success that you have and to help them have the success you have. To always be thought of by the ones that love you and to think of the ones you love. To support the ones you love with the things they love and help them responsibly do the things they love and achieve things that they’d love to achieve. To always be concerned about the ones you love. To help the ones you love to love them selves. To be very thankful to have each other.
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@Patrick really big thanks for that… I don’t know how to say, but it really made my heart feel a bit better.
Hugs to you.
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love doesnt believe in you