I have a... DATE

On Friday. and I’m terrified. What if he hates me, what if I look horrible :expressionless: I’ve ordered a new dress which I will post a picture of below. But I need shoes, what kinda shoes will go? Help . What do I talk about, as you can see I’m slightly scared and nervous and excited.

DATE advice anyone?!

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Chill he might be as nervous as you you are young if it doesn’t happen you move on and go on another date
Hope it goes well and good luck!

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I wish you well on this important date you seem to be really preparing for. Scared, nervous & excited seems to sum up your anticipation. :slightly_smiling_face:

Keep the chat lighthearted.

Talk about the changing of the seasons…how Spring puts a bounce in your step. Ask him what types of movies he likes…music…is he on top of current events?

And if you go for dinner, notice how he treats the wait staff. Because that’s exactly how he’ll be treating you down the road. Is he patient? A good tipper? Good social interaction skills?

Over all, just relax and roll with it. Hey! You get a Friday night on the town! :slight_smile:

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Good for you! Wishing you success in the world of romance!

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Sounds exciting ! But yeah, he’ll be nervous too so don’t misread that as him not being interested or indeed not interesting.

I hope you have a happy time ! :sunny:

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I’m sure with that outfit you will knock his socks off. Try to relax and just have fun!

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OMG good luck! Love the dress!

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Not possible.

Good luck on the date.

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@shellys12 he seems soooo confident though, and I’m a quivering mess. A glass of wine whilst I get ready should settle the nerves (I hope) thank you!

@anon35453467 I’m preparing a lot, gonna pamper myself this week in preparation lol. Thank you!

@PatrickT I will probably end up talking about Oli a lot aswell, but great idea, especially the films and music part! Oh definitely, I will keep an eye on how he acts! :slight_smile: and hey you’re so right, if it goes badly I will Paypal him my part of the bill :joy:

@Anon10 thank you, feel like I will need luck on my side!

@everhopeful thank you love, I will keep that in Mind!

@anon20613941 I’m slightly in love with the dress! Just need shoes now! I’m thinking ones with ankle ties but I don’t know!

@haldol thank you so much lovely!

@Coldcomfort I wish this was true but I’m so anxious ! Thank you

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I’ve been looking for this dress! I love it!! It will suit you so nicely!

Just be yourself, don’t stress too much and don’t expect anything. Once you stop expecting too much, it will be easier. You are so beautiful and this dress will do wonders!

Have fun!!

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I think black or nude pumps will work, also red or bright pink lips, love the oversize blazer shift though.

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what kind of date is it? xD

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First choice. Black heels or flats depending you guys relative height. Red shoes would look nice too. Tell yourself that this guy is lucky to have a date with you, 'cause it’s probably true.You got this Spiderpig!

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That dress is stunning. Honestly, just be yourself is all I can say. Best of luck!

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take it easy, let him talk and laugh at his jokes (if they are funny) :wink: good luck :slight_smile:

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Yay! Good for you @spiderpig :rofl:

Just remember to relax…enjoy yourself. Ultimately - have fun!!

:v:

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Just be yourself and you’ll do fine!
Good luck @spiderpig! :slight_smile:

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Good luck, be yourself. Great advice. Have fun.

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I might have a date this weekend with a man that I like but im still not sure about, I am nervous too.
Sorry to but in to your post @spiderpig but im excited about the date :slight_smile:

This is the dress im planning on wearing with black pumps but I think it may be a lunch date so it is a bit overdressed for lunch. Maybe just jeans and a top and jacket if its for lunch

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