Hi, I’ve been feeling really lonely lately, i’ve lost all my friends and I’m not good at socializing. Is anyone here like this from Portugal? and from other places?
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Nothing to say you can’t get out there and meet new people get yourself some pen pals
I’m lonely but I’m not well. I lost lots of friends too but right now I’m not fit for much and am concentrating on my mental health
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same. I’m lonely but not lonely. I need to be alone. I come on here to be social.
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I am a loner and I prefer it that way. I am from Trinidad. How is the weather today in Portugal?
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Niales I sorry that you lost all your friends to this terrifying illness. Lately I’ve lost contact with my last mental friends with the exception of one. Some of my mental friends have died too. An old class maid is visiting me on occasions. And I visit my mental ill mother once a week with grosserieries so she doesn’t starve. I prefere that this way because I function much better solo than i company. If you don’t like being solo you can visit the local club house for.the mental fragiles and maybe get friends thst way.
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Yea i need to be alone most of the time also
You could join a community group or some churches do coffee mornings
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I felt lonely being an only child for 42 years. I made friends. But they moved all the time. I’m sorry you’re lonely. Do you have family near you? Hugs rox
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I have my pic of Sid the sloth from ice age.
I like the way he says
I am a lone lonely loner
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I don’t feel lonely right now, though I do sometimes…currently I just feel unlikable… I feel like I make people uncomfortable or make them feel weird… so I kind of just keep to myself. I watch a lot of funny things… it makes me feel better.
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I too feel lonely, knowing that I’ll probably never have kids and die at an early age.
You get used to it.
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I’m in the USA. I find myself very slowly adapting to isolation over many years. When I lived with my dad it was enough to get by. Then I moved out and had a terrible time being with a roommate and since 2008 I’ve lived alone because it is less expensive for the government and my roommate and I didn’t get along. I am sometimes awake all night and I have to work through it by reading/ writing, watching YouTube, cleaning. I predict in the future I’ll find bliss in solitude and find a friend and have to decide if I go with them or remain alone. But if I remain alone I’ll lose my bliss. Like it’s some kind of test only I don’t understand it.
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hope u can get well.
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I do have my mother
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I feel like that too
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Good greetings!
I’m a bit torn about it.
I used to feel so alone and unloved and neglected as a child but as an adult now I love being alone and need to be alone and choose to isolate.
As long as I’m feeling like myself in my body and my enemies leave me alone and don’t enter my bod.
Because i don’t want everyone to have access to me but some people I’ve “had to” meet because “family”.
But hopefully I can stop seeing them.
I only want people in my life who love me and respect me and who I’m comfortable with and who treat me right.
I don’t have many people like that around me in da flesh.
If I feel I’m communicating telepathically with my loved ones i don’t feel alone and it makes me happy and it nice.
I want a romantic partner I’m in spiritual intimate romantic sacred Union with to be with rest of my life and maybe I’ll get along with his friends and family.
I want to take dance lessons but can’t transport myself there.
I want to ride.
I have a x boyfriend now friend I call on phone once a fortnight.
Have a few other x I’m friends with.
I have beautiful female friends but they are not in flesh with me so it’s telepathicly or so.
I love them so much.
My bestie girl friend is a true lady and I probably can look tacky and stupid if you look at things I’ve done.
But sometimes it wasn’t me as such or I was dominated at a time i couldn’t say no and was restrained invisibly.
Anyway miraculously she this perfect intelligent amazing lady saw past all that and knew real me and we became besties.
My other girl friends miraculously also loved me and seemed to know me better than ones trashing me and deeply because I probably looked real bad.
I currently don’t socialise with anyone.
I’m alone with my dog all day and night.
Weekends too.
Never invited anywhere.
Strange thing my “sister “ who has weekend getaways with friends, weddings, dinner parties, days on boat with friends and luxurious socialite stuff treats me disgusting.
She thinks she is superior and has no life experience and is horrible and stuck up .
She’s always hated on me.
I never want to see her ever again after last time I saw her she suppressed and dominated me hatefully and was fake and disgusting.
Way she treats me is not ok.
Don’t want her in my life.
I avoid family get togethers because i don’t want to meet my horrible sister and her horrible grandfather attacks me hatefully.he is a horrible old man attacking me when i never harmed him.
I don’t want “ family “ in my life at all.
My “ brother “ was nice enough last time we met so appreciated that .
My girlfriend are soooooo much better than her girlfriends.
Different quality of people for sure.
Today I’m going to a cafe with x stepmum.
I don’t usually meet people and am afraid.
Some people I’m comfortable with such as x boyfriend, x boyfriend, x boyfriend and my new friend who lives far away.
I feel i have a lot of friends and loved ones telepathicly.
I would love social life in person too but i don’t know how much i would be up for.
Would I be able to hold conversations……
Comfortably…
Would we do activities together…
I know I was so alone as a child.
I cried why does no one love me.
It was awful emotions.
Now I isolate because i don’t like how most people treat me and I rather be by myself than around that sh it.
I am pretty gentle and i don’t want anyone trying to dominate me hatefully and suppress me when i know they hate or dislike me.
I don’t want to obey anyone ever but if someone I love asks me to do something I can say yes or no and ofcourse i would usually love to do something then to for someone who loves and respects me and treats me beautifully.
I know it’s easy because I had a man put me in invisible restraints and rape me and i always said not for sale.
I’m so happy to have my loved ones.
In my reality they are real.
Physically I’m alone with my dog every day including weekends.
I just don’t usually meet people.
Hopefully I’ll meet some good sorts in person to hang out with in the flesh even.
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If you’re able to take care of a pet I really recommend getting a cat.
They really are awesome.
They give you love, cuddles, and right when you’re going to bed you’ll hear them eating dinner.
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I have 3 cats that I love 
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