I feel lonely, I feel like no one will ever be, why is it?

I never had a girlfriend, I haven’t really tried it lately because nothing ever comes together.
Only my mom loves no one else. im 29 years old.

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if no one is going to be suicidal in a few years

You are young still. Yes, feeling lonely at your age is not easy, I am now in my 50s and have accepted my solitude. I actually like being alone. I have been on dating apps and meet ups. I highly recommend you to use them if you have not. For me, the dating apps were a disaster, but for you it could be a treasure trove. Meet ups are fun too and based on your interests. There is so much you can do online. You can also join a penpal group and exchange messages too. I was on interpals for awhile and met some wonderful people online. Some were not as wonderful but that goes with the territory. I would use the online dating apps and penpal sites with caution. But, you may find yourself conversing with someone you like. Give it a try!!

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the situation for me dating never came together, I’m a boring figure I have no humor, anxious strongly when I have to talk to a woman :frowning:

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i sleep through my half day, i take medication but it doesn’t help much

I only had a couple of girlfriends. But over 9 years ago now. I have had a lot of healthproblems, so it hasn’t really been a topic. Feeling better lately though, maybe I’ll give it a go again.

Things can change for you too. Don’t give up.

I see! hmmm, well, then you should develop some hobbies. For example, I’m learning how to write well. It is a hobby of mine. I’m taking a free writing course. It is fun but a bit stressful. I do enjoy learning.

Do you have any interest in anything?

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I don’t know what to tell you exactly. I want to say : “Don’t give yourself a low score. Give yourself a high score.” I mean, whatever you do have, rate it as high as you can. That way, you can feel happy.

Hi… I’m sorry you’re feeling like this… you’re not alone though. A relationship will come in time. I think you should focus on you and build yourself up… get a new hobby, try fun activities… do things that make you feel better about yourself. Then you can try dating… online dating is a start…

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I’m sorry you’re so lonely. I don’t handle being lonely well at all. I’m not lonely now, but have been in the past. I think you should try getting involved i thugs you enjoy that involve other people. You might make friends at least that way

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I’m 32 and alone af online dating doesn’t work I’m overweight and can’t motivate myself to hit the gym it’s over for me my guy lol

In my country, the average age of someone getting married is 35.

You still have plenty of time. Take heart.

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