I dreamt of my old crush

[Om_Sadasiva]

How long ago did this crush happen?

[bluebutterfly]

I often dream about my first girlfriend, and we are in love, but when it comes to sex it is always a strange, unfulfilled thing, very abstract, dreamlike. Not very physical.

[angledangle]

Well, it sounds like true love. You didn’t know her and still dream about her. It is the truest of all loves.

[PinCushion]

almost 60 years ago.

[naturallycured]

I would argue you are.

Unusual belief here, but fixating on my lost love helped alleviate a lot of my SZ issues. It was as if her spirit was visiting failure upon failure to me in an attempt to kill me and reconcile post-mortem but didn’t have the heart to follow through. Now there’s a possibility we could get together while alive.

[Mr_Hope]

I occasionally think/dream of my ex girlfriend. But it was 20 years ago. She dumped me in a harsh way. Still I learned to forgive. Especially after taking the viewpoint that forgiving isn’t accepting what happened. It’s just about not being angry anymore.

[Aziz]

[Rosette]

I dreamt I was getting married to my ex few days before I met my new boyfriend two weeks ago. I felt so scared of the dream that I had sex with my boyfriend the day after meeting him. He wanted to get married though but I broke up with him because the sex was too good I thought I would lose my mind. TMI. I like being single though I miss him from time to time. At least he helped me get over my ex and that crazy dream.

[Om_Sadasiva]

@Rosette

I like being single

Me too.
Probably i wouldn’t be able
to maintain a relationship.
But still, I have feelings
for her.