And I don’t treat my head very nicely. I think my mother worried for 9 months that my head would hurt her when I was born. Sorry, Mom.
What a terrible thing to tell your child.
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Oh, she didn’t tell me that. I thought it because she did tell me she didn’t want me (which was a terrible thing to tell me). My mother’s words were always business like and very insensitive.
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I’m so sorry @PinCushion. We want you here on this site.
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I’m sorry. I hope you can process through everything
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Thank you @SkinnyMe and @LilyoftheValley. She’s long gone but the scars remain. I have to open up to the love that is available now. I have a tendency to turn off like a faucet.
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That’s good that you know you need to open yourself up to love. That’s a huge step towards recovery 
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Oh, turning off like a faucet is not good. I had a few gf’s like that. It’s miserable when that happens.
It’s miserable for both people.
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Oh, really?1515151515
Who’s older? You or me, @PinCushion? I’m 59 next month on the 23rd.
Maybe not. I thought it must be frustrating to the lover as well. But I suppose lovers are not daunted when they aren’t received well. Do they really just keep on loving or do they get hurt feeling and quit?
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In my case, I keep on loving forever. It’s hard to get me to love. But, once I love, I love forever.
That’s interesting. I’m afraid I usually have too many conditions to my relationships. I can be so cold and I’m not exactly sure how to change that.
I’m the same. I’ve had so many people leave me throughout my short life I can’t have a healthy relationship anymore (friendship or more)… healing can always happen of course but it’s a long process
Babies skulls are pliable at birth so they can go thru the birth canal.
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Yeah a newborn baby looks like a conehead
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The baby I knew the most was a Cesarean. The mother was trying natural birth and couldn’t. Anyway, the baby had a black and blue bruise on her forehead from the effort. So, I imagine that natural birth is quite a squeeze. Also, when a doctor found out I had a paralyzed vocal chord, he said it might have been damaged during birth. So, birth is pretty grim from eveyone’s angle is what I figure…
You make a good point.
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