A baby makes a lot of demands and can’t really earn love. Well, they can by being cute. Mothers are not always impressed by cute. So motherhood is a lot of work. One really needs to be young, willing and able. I never was. Even when I was young, I didn’t feel young. And I wasn’t knowledgeable. I’ve learned a lot living with the provider’s grandchild. I’m so glad I wasn’t a mother. I had no feel for it, all instincts were killed. Now, I’m an interested onlooker.
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I’m also glad I’m not a mother. I have no maternal instincts or even an interest in children. I know I would be an awful mother so I will never have children.
I first decided not to have kids when I was 5. All of my life I have stood by that. People still tell me ‘one day you’ll change your mind’ it makes me furious.
I think it’s rude to assume because somebody is female their purpose in life is to have children. There is enough people on this planet anyways.
If I ever did have children, (which I won’t) I would adopt. If I was a dictator I would make it a law that nobody would be allowed to have their own children until the ones without families are adopted.
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