I didn't hear from my bf for over 24 hours

So I was worried about him. He finally contacted me around 3pm this afternoon. He said it was really busy at work (military patrol). It’s a strange occupation for a guy who likes poetry and literature. I was attracted to him by his Facebook profile where he listed his favorite books.

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Military patrol, where? :smiley_cat::smiley_cat::smiley_cat:

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Holy you talk about your boyfriend a lot on here, you’re obsessed. Do you have OCD?

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Thanks @GrayBear @TheCanuk. He’s in the Middle East, like Afghanistan.

No I’m not diagnosed with OCD. I just don’t have too many people I can talk to about him.

I believe that they withdrew all troops from Afghanistan like 6 months ago.

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That’s true. I didn’t mean he was there in particular just in the Middle East. He’s told me where he is but I’m not supposed to talk about it. It’s exactly 8 hours time difference from Central Standard Time.

He’s supposed to be back in the US soon now. He’s just waiting for his commander to sign his paperwork. It’s just a formality though.

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If my boyfriend ghosted me like that i would put him in the doghouse

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I know. He’s pretty busy with his work right now. Most days he visits with me usually.

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I really hope he’s the real deal for your sake. It seems shady to me.

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Thanks @Turtle43. We will see if he comes here as promised.

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You’re being ‘Romance Scammed’.

Next he’ll ask you for money to travel to see you. Get rid of this person…now!

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Thanks @Patrick

Have you spoken with him on video chat ? I have been scammed by guys claiming to be in the military… Be careful.

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Not on video chat just text chat. Thanks

I don’t disagree. It could be a scam.

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Be careful hon.

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Be careful, I repeat the advice others gave you.
Have you ever met?

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Not yet. He’s supposed to come here and get his own place. I’m going to stay in my apartment for a while longer until we get to know each other better. Thanks

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